These Limiting Beliefs Feel Icky
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Hey friends. Welcome back. Today, I'm just going to get into the meat and potatoes of this episode. I have noticed this pattern. It's been a few years now and when I'm doing work with clients, they really come to me and they're there want to do their work. They want to do their personal growth. They want to, feel better. And that inevitably always happens, but there's this kind of. Part in the growth cycle. That starts to feel icky. And when you are really being intentional and being [00:02:00] aware of your bots of your beliefs, your opinions, your thoughts, your stories. Your unhelpful questions. It's like sitting at the bottom of the ocean. And you're at the bottom of the ocean. And all of a sudden, you're very aware of all of the sand around you and the sand is going in the wrong places and it doesn't feel great.
And there's, it's Rocky and it's icky and there's things crawling on you. And it just really uncomfortable. And when my clients are going through the stage of genuinely becoming more aware, Of what is causing their feelings and what is creating their actions and their inactions and their reactions to things, their results. They start to feel this. I really, is this what [00:03:00] I've been thinking is are these the questions that I ask myself?
Why in the world am I constantly beating myself up? Do I really want to be that judgy towards other people. And not only that, but clients will also start to see how. Other people in their lives will also tend to see their bots and their unhelpful questions. And their stories, their opinions, their beliefs. And they start to question, are these the type of people that I want in my life?
So when you're in that space, you very much, it's sad.
It's lonely. It's icky. And you're looking around There is a lot of stuff I'm not happy with here. And then once we really get past the aware stage, we can start to deconstruct those, some things. Do I really want to be thinking this way? Do I really want to [00:04:00] have these beliefs?
Are these beliefs limiting me in some way or another? Do I want to have these opinions about myself or these opinions about the people around me. Do I want to be asking myself these kinds of questions and. Is there something else that I want to choose with intention? Can I choose my thoughts again? So when you're in this place of, it's just happening. It's icky.
You're becoming more aware of it. Just it's like being at the bottom of the ocean. Doesn't it feel great. Not real comfortable. It'll be there. Ready to move on. And then with more awareness and being able to choose with intention and deconstructing all of these beliefs, these limiting beliefs, we didn't know that we had. We can start to choose again.
And then it's instead of thinking of all of the things that you [00:05:00] don't want, an all of the things that don't feel good. You are able to look up and look up to a whole new world.
You're able to see life in a different way. You're able to choose your feelings and your thoughts with intention. And while healing is never linear while self-growth is never linear, it does come up. It comes down. We think that we learned a lesson and yet there's more to go. Or we thought that we might have get gotten to this place and then realize, wait a minute, I missed a couple of steps here. It's all normal.
It's all natural. And I just want to give you all that clean space. To say it is. Okay. If you are becoming more aware and you're at the bottom of the ocean and you're like, oh, this is really uncomfortable. I don't really like [00:06:00] what I am thinking and feeling. It's okay. It doesn't feel great. Honor that. And also realize that you're going to be able to get and gain the tools. To choose again. And you might fall down again. It's okay.
Loving yourself through this experience, it is way better than beating yourself up. Then focusing on all of the things that you don't want, and that don't feel good. Let's start choosing. To think intentionally let's start choosing. To think about the things that we do want in our lives. I love you all. Take care. Bye-bye.